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How to write a maid of honor speech

how to write a maid of honor speechFirstly, how to write a maid of honor speech, is the same as how to write a maid of honor toast in some respects.

Our special thanks go to apracticalwedding.com and this particular article http://apracticalwedding.com/2011/08/write-wedding-toast/ for this article and especially Kyley, who left this post. It is so good we wanted to show you.

When we posted “Ask Team Practical: Wedding Toasts,” the idea was that we would look through the comments and collect the best tips on how to write a wedding speech. Luckily for us, there was no need to pick and choose. Kyley left this brilliant comment about how to give a Maid of Honor (or Best Man!) toast that tells you everything you need to know, in four easy steps:

After delivering what I consider a bang up Maid of Honor speech, and hearing a number of other wonderful ones, here is what I consider the perfect wedding toast formula:

Part 1: I love you both so much.

Part 2: A lovely anecdote about the couple’s relationship and how awesome they are. (Try to stay away from something just about about the bride or groom, but about them as a couple. Talking about primarily the bride or groom within the context of their relationship and their love can be lovely, too, if that’s your relationship to the couple.) This should be the bulk of your speech.

Part 3: I hope you are always as happy, joyous, and in love as that moment. OR This proves how madly in love you two are. May you continue to be an inspiration to us all. Etc.

Part 4. (Actually make the toast.) Everyone drinks!
Keep it short and sweet, and it will be a home-run every time. And now because we go the extra mile for you, a sample wedding toast, written by out very own Columns Editor, Alyssa.

Stacey and James,

I love you both so much. Stacey, not only for you being one of my best friends, but for being there for me when being my friend didn’t just involve late night Wal-Mart runs and hours of watching 80′s movies. We’ve grown up together and I am so very grateful that we did not grow apart.

And James, I love you, too, for not only being such an incredible partner for my Stacey, but for being a great friend to me also. I know you didn’t expect that dating Stacey would include helping her flaky friend after she locked her keys in the car three times in one month, but you are a doll and a gentleman for doing so with a smile and only laughing at me a little.

However, what I love most about the two of you is how you are together. I’ve never seen two people that fit so well in each other’s lives; it’s hard to imagine a time when you weren’t “Stacey and James”. It may seem to some like you two were just meant to be and that fate put you together, but I think to look at it that way diminishes how amazing your relationship really is.

Having been there from the beginning, I know that what appeared to be seamless was the effort of two people who truly loved one another and were determined to make their relationship work. They didn’t just magically fit into each other’s lives, they rearranged their lives to make room.

They changed priorities, made time for one another and learned to love each other’s little quirks… like James’s not-so-secret love of male R&B vocalists. But nothing shows this as much as Stacey, James and the hockey debacle. You see, when they started dating, James noticed that Stacey had a framed Gretsky jersey in her living room.

And, deciding to play it cool, James started asking Stacey if she wanted to go to local hockey games and watching the latest game on TV just so he’d have something to talk about to Stacey the next time they chatted. Stacey, oblivious to all of this, thought James really liked hockey so she enlisted my brother to teach her more about the game.

Because, you see, Stacey never watched hockey. The jersey belonged to her Uncle Mike, and Aunt Laura gave it to her as a reminder of him and how he’s watching over her. Meanwhile, both of these guys are pretending to know more about hockey than they actually do and were starring in their own sports-themed comedy of errors. Eventually, they figured it out… and by eventually I mean seven months later.

However, once these two worked on their communication skills, they had a new favorite hobby to do together… and further proof that Uncle Mike really is watching over Stacey. AND, he’s bound and determined that she marry a hockey lover!

And it only goes to show not only how goofy these two are for each other, but how much they truly are committed to being in each other’s lives. Your love makes us smile, makes us tear up with joy and makes us believe in the kind of love cynics would make you feel is impossible. Thank you for being an inspiration and my friends.

To Stacey and James! (everybody drinks)

And that, ladies and gentleman? That’s how it’s done. Now seriously. Do us all a favor and don’t mention strippers, mmmkaaayyy?

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Funny Maid Of Honor Speeches

funny maid of honor speechesThese funny maid of honor speeches are great and will give you some ideas with your speech. Not everybody can deliver funny speeches but with a little help, we believe you can. Have a look and have a laugh. You may not be this ready yet but don’t worry you will be, just follow our tips and you will be fine.

And so cool for delivering a speech for your sister as shown in the first video.

 

We especially love this one and the use of the iPhone is great as both a prompt and a cool new way to deliver a speech.

For most maids of honor, the speech is one of the hardest tasks of the wedding, but also one of the biggest highlights of the reception. It is so important to keep the mood light and entertaining while not totally forgetting the seriousness of the situation. This can prove to be a challenging feat, especially when you throw in those pesky nerves. But to those who are able to pull it off, the response will be worth the thought and creativity that was put into it. Who knows? If you get your funny maid of honor speech on tape, it could wind up a YouTube sensation someday!

So what do you think, could you deliver a funny maid of speech? You can, as you have been chosen as maid of honor for a reason. Go for it, try and liven up your speech a little, can you sing, dance or rap?

Do you think singing is a good idea for a maid of honor – would love to know your views?

Would help and advice on singing help future maids of honor?

Would a free ebook help the maid of honor?

Are funny maid of honor speeches appreciated or should they be more subdued?

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Maid Of Honor Speech

maid of honor speechWelcome to our Maid Of Honor Speech website and congratulations on being the maid of honor! 

Please don’t worry anymore, I know a great person and I really like what she has created to help you. She understands Public Speaking is most people’s number one fear, number two being death!! So she has made it very simple for you to make a great speech you will love as will your great friend the bride!!

She has recorded a short message here , I would love for you to have a listen and also read some of what she says, she is an author of several popular wedding speech books and is a renowned public speaker herself. So I think she should be able to help you, and you have nothing to lose as there is a 100% money back guarantee.

You could have your speech started in the next 10 minutes. Good luck to you with whatever you choose to do and I really hope your big day goes well and you enjoy it.

You were picked as maid of honor because you are a kind, loving and supportive friend to your best friend or sister, so all you have to really do is think about your feelings for the bride and groom and put them into words and in the right order. You are really half way there, and we can help you go the whole way by guiding you.

Our top maid of honor speech tips are

  • Stay calm, it is going to be ok.
  • Start to think about what you want to say as soon as you can. But don’t worry if you are not ready yet, we can help you right away.
  • Consider these ideas;
    • How did they meet?
    • What do you love about the bride
    • Why are they good together
    • If it’s your sister, talk about growing up, great times together, how she has helped you
  • Once you have finished, get opinions from people you trust
  • Memorize as much as possible, write some notes to keep you on track but try to memorize
  • Keep it short, 3 to 5 minutes is enough time to convey your feelings

The best advice we can give you right now, is to take a look at our speech examples or we highly recommend trying our book. And keep reading our great web site, there is a lot here to help you and we will add new posts with more useful information for you the maid of honor. Oh and well done btw for getting the job!!

And good luck with your maid of honor speech…

Here is a link to Wikipedia Bridesmaids

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